Authenticity / Emotions / Energy / Expectations / law of attraction / Love / Men / Mirrors / Relationships / Women

Mirror, Mirror on the wall…

…who’s the biggest liar of them all? Well, apparently I am! And I’m happy to admit it once and for all. I don’t feel guilt or shame about it. In fact, I embrace it. There are times when I simply find it necessary to tell an untruth. I’d rather not tell the bill collector that I … Continue reading

Emotions / Family / Friends / Love / Men / Relationships / Women

Let’s Give Them Something to Talk About

We’ve seen the headlines “Black Men Don’t Get Married!”, “Why Black Men Choose White Women”, “Most Black Women Will Never Marry” and countless other titles  of articles that perpetuate the belief that black men and women cannot, do not, will not choose each other as mates.  There’s the constant media promotion that we cannot co-exist … Continue reading

Blockages / Desires / Ego / Energy / Expectations / Friends / Friendships / heart / Love / Men / Relationships / Self-Love / Wants / Women

Are You Truly Ready for Love?

I am ready for love…all the joy and the pain. I’ve found that people talk a real good game. And I, never one to shut my ears to a good story,  love listening to their stories about how good they love and how ready they are to be loved and loving. Their words mesmerize me … Continue reading

Desires / Detaching / Dreams / Ego / Expectations / Family / Fear / Friends / Friendships / God / heart / Love / Men / Relationships / Self-Love / Surrender / Women

“I’m just sayin…you can do better.”

I love to people watch. There’s so much you can learn from people just by watching, paying attention to their gestures, facial expressions, tone, interactions with others…. I notice the guy who waits to hold the door open for the women behind him. And how his jaw tenses when they don’t acknowledge his subtle, yet … Continue reading

Blockages / Desires / Ego / Fear / God / heart / Love / Men / Relationships / Uncategorized / Women

Some people don’t deserve love…

Actually, the entire quote was “Some people are trash and don’t deserve love.”  I couldn’t believe it. I sat looking at my computer screen in a state of utter amazement that someone actually formed the thought and preceded to share it with others.  And to make matters worse, there were some who actually co-signed this … Continue reading