“I’m just sayin…you can do better.”

I love to people watch. There’s so much you can learn from people just by watching, paying attention to their gestures, facial expressions, tone, interactions with others…. I notice the guy who waits to hold the door open for the women behind him. And how his jaw tenses when they don’t acknowledge his subtle, yet … Continue reading →

Are you really available for Love? -Part 2 of the Ambivalent Love Series

Sometimes, I’m so caught up in my own feelings and emotions that I just can’t transfer my thoughts to paper, at least not coherently.  But I’ve always been able to find someone who’s already said most of what I wanted to say anyway.  This week has been a roller coaster ride of emotions for me.  … Continue reading →

Had me at hello…

Here is a thing my heart wishes the world had more of: I heard it in the air of one night when I listened To a mother singing softly to a child restless and angry in the darkness. I’ve been a voracious reader ever since I could remember learning to read. It’s a habit passed … Continue reading →

Sometimes Crazy Leads to Healing and Loving

I was putting linens away in my bureau this morning and found it difficult to push the drawer completely in. I’m slightly anal when it comes to drawers being open even just the tiniest bit. To me, it looks messy and unkempt so, of course, I had to get to the bottom of why this … Continue reading →

From The Art of Loving

As a student of Love, an important part of my study is learning in what ways I need to improve upon being a more loving being. I’ve said this before, but I feel that it bears repeating. My study and practice of love is not solely for romantic purposes. First and foremost, it is spiritual.  … Continue reading →

From God with Love

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve wished that God would just speak directly to me in a voice that I don’t have to sift through MY stuff to hear.  And in the process, I’ve wondered what would God say? Well, I’ve just recently finished reading  The Soulmate Secret and it contained a deep, … Continue reading →

Keeping Love Simple

I always tell those closest to me that love is not supposed to be hard.  It’s just not.  When we’re looking for love we get caught up in the where, the when, the how, and the who.  And when we’re in love we’re asking ourselves what to do, how to be, how to act, is … Continue reading →

Detaching

My furniture was just recently delivered to me from Atlanta.  Yes, it took two months to receive my furniture.  So in the meantime, we’ve been doing without – just focusing on the bare essentials. At first, it was urgent to get my furniture.  I mean, how on earth would I ever survive without my wine … Continue reading →